So I been with this guy for 8 months total he suffers of depression and I had serious issues but I am fine for now due to my effort to try to get better ! When the relationship started everything was okay and great but now is clearly destructive. I eventually got pregnant and I do have my way of taking care of my child and bought my own house , sometimes he is sweet & kind and other times I just can't with the bullcrap. I decided to stay with him because I truly did love him but somehow he is stupid asf ! He came to our home yesterday and told me sex is getting old , he did not help with dishes as I was washing them all , and tried to make a bunch of food he never spend a single penny to help to buy ! He tottaly kept on telling me how other woman likes the vibration of car and at this point is clear to me is not a relationship it's just lust... I got another guy and he loves me and doesn't treat me like trash , and deep down I want to tell the depressive person to go away but I am a really nice human being so I feel bad and sorry for his issues because a mental problem is not something he can change without support ! What can I do?
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When it no longer is in love in the relationship and just destruction, madness, depression, etc. Leave that relationship or FIX IT!
If both partners love one another, then they will do everything to fix their relationship.
1. Ask your partner or the person you love or is with. Ask if they still love you. Ask if they still want this relationship. Ask them if they are willing to fix the relationship with you.
2. Ask them how they feel about everything that is going on. Talk about your feelings too. Listen to them and understand why.
3. If it is not working, then let that relationship go and do something else than to think about the past. Sorry.
4. Love yourself more, respect yourself, and respect that person. Respect them no matter what had happened or just learn to forgive them and never talk or have any contact with them.1