So it's been a week in a half since my boyfriend broke up with me and I just feel lost and scared to move on. Every time I try to move on, it feels like I'm cheating even though my ex wants nothing to do with me and I'm not even dating any guys I'm just making friends. Every time a guy is interested in me, I will make a excuse because I will think they will leave me just like my ex did. Finally felt a little happy with someone and it feels like I ruined it. My parents wants me to move on but I'm having a hard time.
Honestly it started that day you came over to my house, and we were gonna walk to the gas station that Was three blocks away from my house and you got scared. Like it was literally three blocks away and that got me to thinking if that little walk scared you there is no telling what other little things will scare you.
Most Helpful Guy
And he waited for 8 months to tell you this. I don't believe that this could be the reason. Then why did he offer you the engagement ring? And you too offered him one. I think , he found a new girlfriend who is taller than you and having slightly smaller and firmer boobs than you , and probably a better looking face. That can be the only reason for him to leave you when everything was going well between the two of you. Plus you are a virgin. May be he secretly wanted some deep sex too , which you were hesitant to provide before marriage.0
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Most Helpful Girl
Hey there, first off this is very early to look at yourself this way. You are still in a sort of grieving process and you yourself and others around you shouldn't be just saying get over it. You need time to heal and find yourself again way before even going down a route with another. Drawing this line will help you and protect you so you can heal and grow from this experience. Being left by another will always wound but with time it will get more bearable not much different in the process of grief and suffering loss. You are ready to make friends and perhaps you should set your mind that this is your current place and thats it for the time being. Try to have some fun and live a little forgetting about any new relationship you need this time to heal and by forming this thought pattern it will help free you from the concerns you think you are having because surely you realise you are not ready for anyone else? Also try to be easier on yourself that by having new friendships with other men you are not intending anything from the outset so hopefully this would help stop your hurt making you feel confused and that you are cheating... you are allowed new connections but just be careful with yourself, its all you have right now.. best wishes to you xx0