So I had a boyfriend for a long time, and it was pretty serious. We wanted to get married and everything later in life and EV everything was perfect. But later in the relationship he seemed to only want me for my body and not myself. He kinda acted flirty around other girls while I was there and everything and I was fed up with it (it went on for a month or two) so I ended it. He tried to get me back for months and even pretended he was someone else to prove that I still like him. And I did, I still loved him. So I agreed to talk again, and we became friends, and then eventually got back together. But now he only says Ily when I send nudes or do stuff with him, and he just told me tonight that he doesn't know if he loves me anymore... Why do I still love him? Why doesn't he love me anymore? Did I do something wrong this whole time? I don't understand this. I just want us to be together how we always wanted to be...
Most Helpful Guy
well first off sorry but he is using you, and he probably got over the honeymoon phase, and you are still stuck in it. just move on don't chase after him, distance yourself he will use you and will hurt you not just now but in the future when your trying to build trust in your next relationship. I know you thinking to yourself he wouldn't do that but you told us that he already did. it will be hard to move on, but in the end it will do you more good to move on than trying to get back together with someone who doesn't love you anymore0
Most Helpful Girl
he knows he can treat u like crap so he does u need set ya boundaries n self respect walk away n find something better if he treats u badly it be hard but trust me it b worth it0