So I had a boyfriend for a long time, and it was pretty serious. We wanted to get married and everything later in life and EV everything was perfect. But later in the relationship he seemed to only want me for my body and not myself. He kinda acted flirty around other girls while I was there and everything and I was fed up with it (it went on for a month or two) so I ended it. He tried to get me back for months and even pretended he was someone else to prove that I still like him. And I did, I still loved him. So I agreed to talk again, and we became friends, and then eventually got back together. But now he only says Ily when I send nudes or do stuff with him, and he just told me tonight that he doesn't know if he loves me anymore... Why do I still love him? Why doesn't he love me anymore? Did I do something wrong this whole time? I don't understand this. I just want us to be together how we always wanted to be...
Most Helpful Guy
You are 15. Things are going to be confusing. It is not likely that you are going to find your perfect partner at that age. Please just leave him, he is just using you. Don't you see? He only comes to you when he wants sexual experiences. Just end it, really. My sister is in a slightly different situation but it has some of the same characteristics with a guy friend that wants to be her boyfriend. She needs to avoid him as you do, but she can not help seeing him from time to time because they go to the same places. You just need to let it go, remember you are still young, do not let people use you for their own lustful wishes. Just respect yourself. Really. This is what I would tell my little sister if she as in this situation except for, I would add to her that I was going to beat him up.0
Most Helpful Girl
he knows he can treat u like crap so he does u need set ya boundaries n self respect walk away n find something better if he treats u badly it be hard but trust me it b worth it0