Me and my ex broke up a few days ago - before we did we hooked up and he said he'll always love me, wants to be friends, and still holds out some hope but he left quickly. The next day he called me and said he "has one of my earrings" and we planned to meet up today so I could get it back. I told him I left things unsaid last time I saw him and sent him a long message saying I'm sorry if I caused him pain, it was great to see him again, and that it was a blessing to know him - it was a sweet message and he saw it but has not said a word to me for days which I find offensive. He'd usually like something like that, or would be the one sending it himself so it's not like him to not respond. Anyway, I'm hurt and have the impression he doesn't care at all/stopped caring so I don't know if I should remove him from facebook and block him everywhere so I can move on and have no thought of 'when will he message me'.
What should I do?
Most Helpful Guy
Give it time. He may be using these days to let everything sink in. He might be asking a close friend for advice and carefully thinking over what he should do. He may not want make a rash decision. Wait a couple days. You never know what life threw his way. Maybe he is stressed out about something else, too and it's hard for him to make a rational decision. He could be under a lot of pressure. I'm not sure if he's a student but if he is final exams are coming up! Also drama from work, family, or friends could have caused him to be distracted. Give him time to clear his head.0
Most Helpful Girl
I don't think you should block him on things because that could cause unnecessary tension instead of leaving things on good terms. Just stop contacting him until he contacts you. But also remember that he is your ex now, and doesn't have to reply anymore.1