I'm not talking about the ones who turned out to be cheaters or scumbags. I mean, if you ended on good terms or if your love wasn't at the right time or even situation. And lets say you're in a committed relationship and you're really happy in it, you would not change a thing, but sometimes you just think of your ex (without wanting to go back or anything). Is that normal?
Most Helpful Guy
Normal and healthy to sometimes think about good times you've had in the past. You can't live in the past, and you can't turn back time and try to re-live the past, but you can think about it or think about people that were part of your life. Nothing wrong with that, though sometimes it's best to just leave the thoughts as thoughts, not act on them.1
Most Helpful Girl
I thought about my ex too much. It was unhealthy how much I thought of him but I think it was because I didn't accept the break up. It is totally normal to think of an ex once in a blue moon. Heck, sometimes I randomly think of people I went to high school with and just wonder what they're up to these days.0