so I'm 25 I've been dating the same guy for more then 2 years my only boyfriend I've ever had cause I never thought I could find the right guy until him unfortunately we weren't meant to be we broke up on good terms kinda after a big fight which was bad and he said some fucked up shit like he was just with me for a good time "but didn't mean it the way I took it"... any whom he apologized but I couldn't find myself to get back with him after that and after all the shady stuff he did behind my back... i still love him but know I deserve better just how long do you think it will take for me too stop thinking and occasionally I'll cry about it it's been 3 weeks... how long will it take til I'm back to me? And should I block his number?
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Definitely cease all contact with him. Blocked number, no Facebook, etc. Moving on will be next to impossible if you're still talking to him.
Most people say to take half the length of the relationship to heal and move on. Best guess, it'll be 3-4 months at least before you start to feel a little better about it, and then you can start getting over him.
Some guys will say you should hook up with someone else to get over him, but they're just trying to take advantage of your fragile emotional state, and it's not really gonna help you.0