So i come from money have a college education (Bach and masters) just opened my own business , I come from money and I pretty much have all the material things I've ever wanted. But one thing , love. The love of my life is a lowlife druggy living paycheck to paycheck using it on drugs and alcohol and really not doing anything with his life. He just has a HS education. His friends are the same as him. Long story short we met when we were both 18 and 24 now. It's been a roller coaster for all these years with us and over the weekend he cut it off. I asked "was I not good enough?" And he said "thats the problem, you're good enough just not good enough for me. You need to stop wasting your time on me and guys like me."
How would you interpret these words?
Most Helpful Guy
I was an addict from 18 to 23. If he has not changed by now than he likely won't. Why would you stay with him if he isn't trying to help himself? Him saying your too good for him probably has nothing to do with your well offness. It has to do with him being a drug addict. Let him go hun, go find a guy on your level, goal wise. A couple should always be equals. It should be like you guys both go do your own thing and when you come together it's like magic. Do not try to drag him up from anything. He has to want it for himself and he damn sure won't do it for you.0
Most Helpful Girl
Get rid of him... now. Its a pissibility down the line he may change. But do you really want to stick around wasting your time and energy to find out? You should always want to date someone who is uplifting you in a positive direction. When I date guys, I ask myself this question and If I feel that person is draining me. I get rid of them or ghost them. You dont owe anyone an explanation on why you do things.1