I broke up with my ex about a year ago..
it was quite harsh the way I did it but I was going through a lot (my mum passing away, exams etc). i never really gave him a real reason I kind of just ended it and told him not to speak to me again...
he got in contact about 4 months later on snapchat and we had a brief conversation (how're you etc) but I deleted my snapchat shortly after and haven't spoken to him since.
But recently after going to therapy I realised how much I must've hurt him and I wrote this really long message to send to him.. I don't want to get back with him but just an apology that he deserves... I found him on twitter and started following him.. he hasn't followed me back & I can't message him until he has followed me back (rules of twitter) Should I tweet him? Or should I wait for him to notice that I've followed him? Or should I take it that he doesn't want anything to do with me?
Most Helpful Guy
hum... let him go I would say. if he follows you back on twitter or any other social media and seems to want to talk with you then yeah tell hik. but for now let him go. there is no point in oppening a wound so you just feel better.1
Most Helpful Girl
Well since you said the break up was harsh and the last contact you guys did have quickly ended, it would be hard to say whether or not he would still talk to you. However if you have something to say, I'm guessing you should. He also seemed nice enough to establish contact with you so trying wouldn't be so bad.0