Urgent! What would you do if your ex said we could be friends in the future but not anytime soon because I cause stress and bring shit to his life?
What Guys Said 3
Block him and cut off all contact. You deserve to move on.
I honestly think you maybe trying to hard if your still chasing him. forcing someone is just as good as him saying no. I think you should focus a on you because that's what he's trying to do. people change in 5 years weight and habits and even your intellectual interest. if it's about the sex you can have toys and as far as on a emotional level apps like this and blogging and just meeting new people can help if you exercise and eat right along with some positive thinking your bound to move past him and onto so much better. this is just my little opinion others may differ
What Girls Said 3
Why are you begging? It makes you look needy and desperate. Guys will not respect this kind of attitude. He told you to stay away from him yet you kept and bugging him. It's over. You deserve someone better.
You are making yourself look needy and desperate. If he is the one that caused you pain why on God green earth are you begging him to talk or come back. Please, I beg you to stop. Honestly, making yourself look needy is pushing him further away. So, you are not accomplishing anything but giving him a reason to call you crazy and make fun of you. Stand up for yourself by not reaching out and cutting off all contact. I know it will be hard because you love him. But, just take time to remember why y'all broke up in the first place. Did he change for the better since then? Probably not, so love yourself enjoy your life and find you again. Take time for yourself and rebuild your self worth. Never settle and know your worth.
Why aren't you listening to him? He doesn't want to be with you, and right now he doesn't want to be friends. Instead of begging and trying to force him to be friends with you, work on your self respect and just walk away.
Focus on your new life as it is and build something just for you that you can be proud of and stop chasing a man who has told you he doesn't want you anymore. Instead of ending your relationship with respect and dignity he took a cowards way, but after that you haven't made it easy by constantly calling and begging.
There doesn't need to be a friendship now, there needs to be a new normal and it's time for you to start focusing on that
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