My girlfriend wants to continue to be friends with her ex, as in actively talking and texting him. Should I be worried that she might be trying to give him a second chance. Or maybe even just being his friend so she can sleep with him if we ever get into a major fight. I hate that I get jealous but quite frankly I have trust issues with her and its hard to be the boyfriend who gets to see random texts pop up on the girlfriends phone from her ex and not be able to know what they say :|
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Ok, this is what you need to do. I know this sounds harsh but the fact is you need to think about yourself and not her.. next time your with her and your in a place you both feel comfortable. tell her your no longer interested in a relationship with her. explain that the reson is that she's not willing to let her past go and that no man worth her time is going to be with her unless she cuts her ex off completely, the fact is unless she's had kids with this guy or somthing along those lines where she has a legal reason to keep in contact with him she should cut him off..
think of it this way.. if she dumped him then it was becouse she didn't want to be with him anymore.. if that was the case why is she still in his life?.. if he dumped her then she's not over him and your the rebound..
either way brother you need to get out.. right now, be strong and grow a backbone.. explain your reasons so she knows what she needs to do. and that way you can be looking for a girl who's attention isn't divided between you and an ex..