Does this guy still care for me or using me? What does he want?

Me and my ex broke up last week. We didn't talk for days and he acted very distant (expected of course). The other night he texted me saying he missed me and invited me out to a bar. His friends had stood him up and he was hurt and ended up crying because they were ignoring/mistreating him - I held him while he cried, and he told me he loved me a few times and thanked me for being there. He almost kissed me so i kissed him first then he gave into it without hesitation.
Thing is he mentioned us not having much of a romantic future (used to talk about me being his wife), had been spotty or won't text me for the whole day when he usually would, and ended up leaving last night with his friends who ignored him when he could have spent time with me, who he said himself is the only person who is a REAL friend in his life. His actions are very confusing to me and I don't know what to think of it. I am still in love with him but don't want to be hurt or have any expectations, but he did kiss me, hug me, act intimate, and told me he loved me? But he didn't really text me today the day after? What's this guy thinking.


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  • He needed someone there and you provided it. You was used for the night.

    This is kinda a normal routine exes go through. They will hang out, do things like a couple then eventually an argument happens that stops that in your tracks. People like being re-drawn to their exes.

  • Because he broke up with you and his friends reject him his mind is messed up. He can't think straight and therefore tries to retract his decision about you. But then he remembers and then stops. So it's almost like a loop.

    • I mean why's he kissing me and telling me he loves me if he didn't care?

  • He was upset and needed familiarity


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