i'm thinking of messaging my ex boyfriend to try and start a casual relationship, which we both originally wanted. we were living together for 4 months and the sex was amazing. Now we've been apart a month and I miss the physical side of things. I was going to send the following message in the hopes he'll get the hint :P..'hey, thanks for lending me the board games the other week. would it be okay for me to drop them off to you some point tonight before I forget? :P' does this seem desperate or too friendly, rather than how I mean it to be a hook up?