My ex and I broke up a week ago. We've continued texting/hanging out and last time I saw him we kissed and both said I love you. Thing is he's made me doubt we have any future, ever, and how he ever felt so I've been hurting a lot and distancing myself. Besides, we broke up and he is not fighting to be with me romantically. I hooked up with a co-worker last night - known him for a whle and there has been build up. I know my ex still cares if I am with any person and he was texting me til 4am asking why I wasn't responding to him which made me feel bad becuase I was with a person I know he dislikes cause he always knew we might have hooked up. I'm not sure how to feel - is it ridiculous to factor in an ex's feelings who has hurt you and chooses not to be with you, but does still love you/get jealous? I know I technically have the single freedom to do whatever I want but I would never want to hurt him.