Why some dumpees get over their ex within few weeks while other dumpees carry their love for the ex in their hearts for years? Make it clear someone?

İ speak about LTR's where the partners truly loved and intensely cared for each other. When i was left behind by my ex i was devastated and after 5 months now i'm doing better but i'm still thinking of him daily and have this feeling of having a part of my heart taken away, still wishing deep down our paths cross one day again etc. But i know people who break up and move on within weeks or max 1,5-2 months, don't grieve for a longer amount of time although they also didn't saw the BU coming?
Why some dumpees get over their ex within few weeks while other dumpees carry their love for the ex in their hearts for years? Make it clear someone?
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