Is it difficult to find true love?


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  • Yes, yes it is. Nowadays many people doesn't even understand it. Mostly because of the difference in expectations, and the so-called "Hookup culture". Actual love doesn't happen that fast. It has to be realized, and then developed over a period of time.

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  • I find it difficult in the sense that if one wants to find the one, they will search for them. intensively in some cases. alas, love doesn't work like that. we're being told that hard work precedes success, but I think the more we want to find true love, we lose the sight of what true love really is. it becomes less natural and thus it can lead to overlooking some flaws the other might have, or their good points.

    true love is not any relationship with mutual attraction and affection, it is also a choice to respect and accept your mate under all circumstances forever. you don't have to find a perfect person for that. but it appears many search for their perfect ones and then true love is indeed difficult to find

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  • @ Avanie What would YOU, personally define, as 'TRUE LOVE' to you? I think it is different for everyone, but with the women I have been with, none can honestly answer that question, so how can they know what they are looking for, and maybe they found it, but didn't know?

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  • It is impossible to find it because we are not in control of true love. it is not something you look for or seek.
    It is something that happens effortlessly and easy by God putting that person in your path.

    If you want true love do not seek it out just desire it and believe.

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  • There's always the option to just let it go, give it up and stop looking for it altogether. I think it's really just the work of hormones to reduce any living species from completely dying out and nothing more. I seriously doubt "true love" lasts, since it's very rare and completely inconsistent. Still better than hoping for something repeatedly only to be greatly let down and disappointed over and over again when it just never ever works out or never ever seems to happen.

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  • yes if you try to know people.
    no if you just reject guys for shallow things.

    and yes , people nowadays are shallow af so they can't find true love.

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  • Finding it is easy. It happens to almost everybody. But being loved the same by her is a gift only fortunate people get.

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  • i think it is. because we live in a corrupted world where most of people are completely dominated by sin. Love is not natural. Love is supernatural and it is orginated by God, which is Love Himself.

    So if you spot true love somewhere, be completely sure that that is not common or normal. What is common is people using each other by lust, selfishness, greedy, etc

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    • Adam sinned BECAUSE he loved Eve. FYI

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    • You are making the mistake of claiming there is only one form of love. That is not the case in scripture just as there are different types of heaven. 'Make humans love'... thanks for the laugh.

    • @hahahmm differents type of heaven? thanks for the laugh idiot, stupid hater

  • What even is 'true love'? What does that even mean?

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  • 'true love' is a misconception, to me; the thing where you just click and get butterflies every time and live happily ever after. But, you can meet someone that you're willing to work hard at making things great with and weather out life's storms together. But this kind of love is more of a decision than an emotion- it's choosing to put each other first, compromise and forgive, even when they're driving you crazy! That's true love

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  • the most difficult thing one can do. many don't ever find it :( don't worry about it though, and live your life as best you can :)

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    • yes to stay focus n distracted

    • I wouldn't even say distracted. I would say to try your best to live the best you can, and with a positive attitude, and in doing that not only will you not worry about it, but you'll increase your chances of finding it as well :) stay strong, live well, good luck :)

    • Thank u... really appreciated ur advice

  • Depends on what you consider "true love". If you mean it in the Disney sense, with the fairy tale ending, yeah, that's super tough. But if you're willing to make some concessions and realize your partner is human, too, not so hard.

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  • its too damn much hard to find true love these days.
    most of the people care about : looks, a good body, Sex, money, stupid things like that. nobody cares about opening their soul to each other, Deep intimacy, A deep and a rare mental connection, Romance, Trust, STuff like that

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  • you dont find true love , you built it when you trust anyone and overcome every hardship and your relationship grows stronger and you dont realized how far you came together and that you grew old together and know that its true love

    otherwise its just layers of lust lust

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  • Avani. I think u have been through lot of heart broken breakups in India leading u to ask such question?πŸ˜₯πŸ˜…πŸ˜…

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  • I find it difficult... I've met so many people that I liked a lot but either not single or not interested :o
    So although I've been in touch with many, I'm still single :o

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  • Its exttrmely difficult, i have given true love to only two girls. Neighter of them accepted it in the end and rather stayed friends to then go and date someone more flirty and abusive.

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  • No.. Thats not the difficult part.. The difficult part is what aftr you found one...

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  • Here I am you've found me, it's a dream come true a

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  • It is but another way of looking at it is appreciating, accepting and loving for who they truly are. Just because you might have found it, doesn't mean it's going to be easy. You have to fight for the both of you and work together

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  • there exists nothing called true love it's all just lust !

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  • give and take policy
    if your love is true then he'll loves u truly

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  • love... you can't achieve it or win it... you earn it... n the path is trust

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  • Depends on your definition
    If you are talking about that movie stuff, then yes. It's impossible.

    If you are talking about real love that last for ages, then no, not really.

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  • Every great thing is difficult to achieve, if it comes easy, not gonna stay long

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  • the love doesn't find you. love is completely coincidence

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    • tbh don't think so something happens from nothing, everything happens for a reason even if we don't know which is

    • @carmeCC we say same things with different ways :)

    • I don't see love as coincidence... never happen to me

  • most people err. True love is found when you yourself become loving. that entails one who bares others weaknesses and is forgiving. true love can be the person your standing next to when you have learned how to love.

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    • yeah but chances are doesn't stay true, and does that mean it never was?

    • love never stops. love never fails. that's TRUE love. all other is soulish failed attempts infatuations lust or others manipulating someone to fill a void. in general love on this planet is near impossible to achieve.

  • yes, online dating especially can get very disappointing. Very easy to pretend to be someone your not and picture filters can mask a lot!

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  • extremely! everyones chasing someone chasing someone else...

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  • Yes, when you're actively looking.

    When you're not looking and happy with your life is when you get blindsided by someone. ;)

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  • Yes bc love is work and tough to msintain. True love exists but most people don't wanna put in the work... at least I hope

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  • I don't know if it's difficult, but I know that it's not easy.

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What Girls Said 33

  • True Love is without a doubt REAL! But what it actually is, is something most can't fathom.

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  • I find it difficult to find even fake love and I don't try to find it but it doesn't come. I think I'm gonna have to love myself before anyone loves me because I can't function on low confidence like I am bomb

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  • I kind of believe 50 percent destiny and 50 percent your choice, for some people it just happens for others it takes time. I personally haven't found my true love:)

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  • I personally think many people can find love, maybe not "TRUE LOVE" but you can definitely have a loving relationship with someone and make it as great as you can :) You shouldn't look for it though, you need to let things happen naturally <3

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  • There's no unconditional love, period.
    Not even your parents can love you truly and unconditionally, how can you expect someone else to do the same?
    Seems pretty cynical but is true to an extent

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  • Yea seems like you have to search all across the world

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  • No. You just need to find the right size and a pair that fits with your dresses.

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  • There is no such thing as "finding true love", you can either love or not. Also, love doesn't exist outside of a person, so... That's it. Gl :)

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  • "Finding" true love?

    There's no such thing as finding love so yeah, that would be difficult if it's true.

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  • I'd imagine it is. During times like these, people just wanna hook up and have fun no strings attached.

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  • Yes I think so. But for some people it happens (eventually). Others not so much.

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  • Yes very! but you should never give up on finding that person i think :)

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  • difficult? yeah. impossible? no
    i believe in soul mates so i think that people need to pass by many relationships to grow up their sould till the moment they can be with their soul mate

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  • There is no such things as love or true love. These are all illusion which destroy people mentally and physically.

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  • I'm beginning to think it doesn't exist for certain people like me.

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  • If you don't know what you want in life then you won't know what to seek in that person.

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  • No, it is not when you, yourself start loving someone truly. <3

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  • Does true love even exist?

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  • Of course, and yet attainable for everyone.

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  • It's difficult to find any love I find.

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  • I don't think so :) It's about location and luck

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  • wasn't for me

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  • yuppers

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  • you find love when you're not looking for it...

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  • Yes, it is

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  • Yes.

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  • Yes. Very difficult for me

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  • it's hard to find a match made in Heaven

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  • It's a process

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  • noo.. just be patient and be yourself

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