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People tend to think I'm cold and uncaring because I have no problem cutting people out of my life who end up being toxic to have in my life (ie. family member, ex-girlfriends, girlfriends, friends... Etc). Though to be honest I don't think it's ever easy to lose someone close and that you care about. It sucks and I hate doing it but sometimes you have to and other times life takes you in different directions.
Not all, especially if I know the person is really going (as in death), I stumble to find the words to say.
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Pretty much, yes. The longer you live the more goodbyes you will have to say and sometimes you won't even get the chance. It's important to remember that life renews and refreshes all the time. People come, people go, new people come. It's a journey that you learn from.
I know it's just so hard especially the goodbyes you never got
Yes, it is. It all comes down to closure. It's the same as ending relationships. Sometimes the other person gives you the right amount of closure, other times you need to find your own closure. The second part of that is particularly true when peope die. You need to make peace with it and most people find a way to do that. Life goes on, with or without you. You can either have it drag you along or you can lead the way.
Very true I need to learn that
My divorce was mutual on both our parts. We had a 3 year old daughter together and were able to get an attorney to fill in the blanks and we'd both sign the agreement/contract. We never had to see a judge and here's why. I simply said I will pay you X amount of dollars for you and ****** to survive & flourish. Surviving only not acceptable for my little girl. I said what I want from you is the promise I can see ****** whenever I want with (24) hr. notice. Also every weekend I want. The house & car of course I left with her for obvious reasons. I will say bye is easy if its for the right reasons. If we didn't have my daughter together, our split would have been UGLY!!!
When you say goodbye to a relative or a friend, it does hurt bad. For whatever the reason, it can take a long time to get over. You do feel empty. Cold, and a bit sick sometimes. All you can do is take it day by day and maybe find a new friend. It will get better, eventually. Promise.
You are always welcome, Catelyn!
It was going to happen either way sooner or later anyway. People come and go all the time, nothing new any more, as I learned that I'm just gonna have to get use to it. People can abandon you, walk out on you, never talk to you again, or bad and tragic shit can also happen and they're just gone from your life; gone from your life forever.
Yeah I know this song🙁
Yes I can.. Although if it is a love relationship, I feel guilty if the girl feels sad and that messes me up a bit...
never felt it... no goodbye ever... still won't think I can handle it... cause even if we were just friends I won't like her to say goodbye and leave me... and I don't forgive so the answer to the next part is never...
It really depends on the person, and what the relationship was.
Yeah, dont have a problem with that. Im very optimistic and I know it wouldn't be for a long period of time.
Goodbyes have always been difficult for me. Can I handle them? Well, yea. Thing is the act of participating in a goodbye makes me want to fight for the person, even if I know I really shouldn't.
The hardest goodbye I had was when leaving my friends and family then flying to live and work on my own in a different country. That was pretty hard xD
i'm still in contact even with people i knew as a kid, so i never found myself in a "goodbye" situation, and i don't want to try that. seems painful XD
It depends on the person, but for the most part, yes, I can handle them pretty well.
It can be difficult at that moment but with passage of time it fades away. Also when you get older you gain more emotional maturity
I just wait when to say it. I can't stand a person for more than an hour, even if she is my boyfriend
goodbye can be handled... by driving ur self to sleep and waking up not knwing ur self lol
Yes I can, but if the person is close it's gonna be hard to let go
Yeah, but i don't like them, i had to say good bye to that pretty french girl in my french school, she went back to France :(
Yes they get ny dick hard, especially the ones that are forever... mmmmmhhhmmm
no I can't handle goodbyes They are the hardest thing to do
goodbyes were hard for a while, but after a while everything stopped hurting.
I do handle good bye from friends who move faraway bad
I never had a problem with goodbyes but i have a problem with hellos😂😂
Goodbye @catelyntje it's hard but I have 😢
What where are you going?
Ooooh omg you scared me for a bit😂
never bye, it's, I'll see you later
yeah, people are shit anyway
ever since my dog died it felt like i was dreaming
I don't like them but I can deal with them.
Yeah, goodbyes can be hard.
Hmm sometimes depends upon the person
Yes, I suck at it but somehow I manage.
I'm terrible at goodbyes
Now I know 😂
That why you don't stop talking to me even though you don't like me 😂 LOL It's hard for me too 😊
Who said I don't like you? I like you😂
Damn chicka 😂 I'm flattered 🙈
Hahahah like you didn't know already as if I'm going to talk to people I don't like
😂 LOL Yep but the problem is that you don't like me enough to gimme your # 😜
Hahahahhahhahsh are you still with that I don't give people on the internet my number
Can't you just lie and give me a false hope?So that at least I'll try to earn your trust and all 😂 lol
I'll lie and give you false hope
Now we are talking So what's up?
Dude I already told you that: the sky
*facepalm* How are you?
Terrific and you?
Why so? I'm awesome
Cause life is good
by the way why do you have a heart in front of your mouth?
It was an app But you can say I'm giving you a kiss of love
So how's your life going?
Depends where they're going.
i hate , but yes i can
depends on person who said that
I have to handle even it's hard
Goodbyes are hard for me too
I hate them.
I'll keep them short
yeah I can..
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