I don't know how to get over this awful breakup? It hurts so bad?
What Guys Said 1
This is over permanently and completely and you will not reconcile and ride off into the sunset together and live happily ever after nor will you remain friends even if he suggests or agrees to it. People breakup to STOP fighting. If he ever did come sniffing around telling you how you were the only one he ever loved, how he misses you and made a mistake blah blah blah it's so he can use you as a backup plan till he finds someone else
What Girls Said 2
First of all, thirty minutes is nothing! If he thinks thirty minutes is a long distance relationship then that is the WRONG guy for you. Seems like he just wants to have his fun and freedom while away at college, and is weighing his options out. You or freedom... I'd help him choose and say freedom as long as I can move on and be with someone who deserves me.
Will you find someone else? Don't ask yourself that. You seem like a great person who is worthy of being treated right. True love exists, and sometimes we run into jerks that prove us wrong. One day, you'll look back and wonder why you even went for this guy. So, yes this feeling will go away, you'll get over this. It all starts with loving yourself and knowing your worth.
Sounds like he just doesn't know what he really wants and as hard as it may be you have to try your best and move on... hang out with friends, stay busy with school or work, find some new hobbies. Take the time to figure out yourself and don't worry about the fact that you had great memories or you really cared for him because if he really cared for you he wouldn't hurt you like that. Just know that time heals everything and you have to take the high road and move on with your life! Hope this helps
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