She is really depressed/unstable and saying how her life will be over if she has no chance of getting back with me. At first I thought if she gets her life together maybe we could try again but she never really tries. Just talks. I feel like if I tell her she has zero chance of getting me back it would be really bad for her. I want her to eventually have a better life just not necessarily going to be with me. So should I tell her there is no chance or just wait till I actually have a new partner to say that? There's a tiny possibility she might get her sh** together but I doubt it.