I cheated ( made out with another guy, while drunk at the bar) on my Boyfriend of a year. I completely regret it, and feel like the worlds biggest piece of sh*t. I love him dearly, and it was the stupidest mistake of my life, I don't know what I was thinking. I would do anything to take it back if I could.
Anyways he broke up with me, and I broke his heart. And I'm the fault for it I know, I completely hate myself for it.
But where do I go from here?
I am not interested in the guy I cheated with, I refuse to talk to him anymore, and I wish I could fix things with my now ex. But I don't think that will happen.
Does anyone have some advice for how I can get over everything that happened, and do what is best for my now ex? I only want the best for him, and care for and love him very much.
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It depends on the guy.
But if you want him so much . I think you should do the following .
write him a long letter ...serious one. Expressing your regret. Make him understand that you were drunk... and that no other guy in the world compare to him in any way shape or form. Tell him that your cheating is year fault and it isn't due to any negligence from his side or shortage . That you were incapacitated and that you are seriously changing year drinking habits. Because o fthis.
Tell him that you are taking time off relationships to review year self and year actions. and that you hope one day he will forgive y you.
Give it time , depends on the guy... it could be from couple of weeks to six months. Make him know that you are not seeing anybody during this time and change year way of living a little. Like focus more on hobbies and sports than on partying etc...
with all of the above , if he doesn't get a feeling you are serious , then he is one of the guys that just can't take these things. People are different in personalities. some people can take it and move on and some cant.