Hi there everyone I am in a very delicate situation I found out my girlfriend of 7 months was cheating on me and had unprotected sex with some guy. The cheating was so bad to the extent that I read on her whatsapp their sexting, flirts and plans and post sex texts etc.
I confronted her about it and she started crying hysterically saying it was a mistake, she loves me so much, I'm the only one that gave her the feeling of true love etc etc. I wasn't buying any of that and she spent an hour or so explaining why she did it and she tied it to her depression and trying to fill empty voids and a whole bunch of messed up shit. She wanted to jump off my balcony but I calmed her down and got her home.
As far as I'm concerned I will not persue a relationship with someone who has cheated. But how do I handle the situation so that she doesn't go haywire and do something stupid.
would appreciate any advice.
Most Helpful Girl
let her jump, she wouldn't jump i bet. she threatened you. she did unprotected sex and continued with sexting and it was a mistake? explained for hours? naah man nah.. i don't believe her, me, personally. but it's up to you. you know her better1
Most Helpful Guy
She's being over emotional to make you feel bad. She's not suicidal. Fuck her. Forget about her for cheating. No excuse for that.2