So about a month ago me and this guy meet through mutual friends on Facebook, our first date was at the movies and he asked for a kiss and I decline and said that would come with time. Everything seemed fine he texted me that night and told me he was feeling me and had a great time with me. That Monday we saw each other again and ate and than his text became less frequent and finally on a Sunday he asked me to meet him to eat somewhere and we did but his attitude changed completely he seemed like he did not want to be there and I asked him what was wrong and he said he was just tired. I felt very bad because I was actually happy to see him so i impulsively text him this "I hope you feel better and I wish you well in life, it seems like I make you feel uncomfortable and by all means that is not what I want. So I wish you well and take care" he left my message on read... it's been 2 days and he has not contacted me... did I do anything wrong?
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If someone said, "I wish you well in life", I'd take it as a "It was nice knowing you, but I don't want to see you again." Like you're giving closure.
I can totally understand wanting to hold off on the kiss...
But you need to show him in some way shape or form that you have a romantic interest.
As a guy, I always tried to rush things and I know a lot of girls tried to slow me. Sometimes it felt like rejection, when it wasn't, but I'd give up.
Eventually, I slowed waaaaaaaaaaay down... no kiss until marriage.
And we got married!
It's a shame that people try to be like other couples, when they just need to enjoy each other's company.
I really hope this works out for you.2