First off his wife is a wonderful person, and I don't want to be a home wrecker. I had a class with her husband and the whole thing was mad sexual tension. We unfortunately kept in touch and he admitted he wanted to have sex with me. The sexual chemistry is so intense and it's been hard to keep turning him down. What should I do?
Most Helpful Guy
honestly I think ya already know what the right thing to do is. don't. cut him off, block his number, stay away from him and tell him to figure his marriage out. He's prolly gonna mess it up anyway but don't let it be because of you. find somebody else who is single, until ya do it really doesn't matter how bad you want this guy you can't wreck his life. masturbate or whatever ya gotta do to calm down but DON'T fuck him :/2
Most Helpful Girl
Ask him if he's done it before outside his marriage. Usually not a good idea as he'll leave you hanging and you'll be attached. It's nice to not have awkwardness with people you've never had sex with. Who knows, he could have stopped having sex with her, but usually Pandora's box isn't worth it.1