I am just wondering how long it took some of you guys and girls to decide to take your ex boyfriend or girlfriend back? And when you did, did it last or did the same problems resurface thus resulting in you breaking up again?
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I broke the one rule I have for myself with an EX . . . Never go back always go forward.
Me and my ex were together for sometime when a lot started to change so we both decided to end things. I missed him a bit because he was what was familiar to me , but after a few months I was ready to move on. He ended up getting back in contact with me ( after 5 1/2 months of being apart) and we decided to start "fresh". That is a decision I regret to this day ! I took him back because when things were good they were REALLY good. I had forgot that when things were bad I was simply MISERABLE and nothing made any sense. I'm not saying that getting back with an ex is a mistake , but I think people forget most of the time why it didn't work in the first place. Very few things change when you get back with a person , but I have heard of it working out for some people . . . So maybe it's just me.0