Personally, I feel like sh*t.
Know people who don't really get affected.
Also, how did your exes usually take it?
Most Helpful Guy
I recently went through a break up. I just keep thinking about all of the best moments we had. Every cute little smile, Everytime she grabbed my hand and took off with me somewhere. Every dinner we had, ever dress she'd wear. Every debate we'd have which just ended in her pouting and being adorable. And I keep thinking about how it's all gone, and I can't have any of those moments ever again. And it's horrible. But then I think about how happy she made me. And how great she was for me at the time. Right now, I'm happy in my life. And I'm sure that she is too. We made each other happy during that time of our lives, and nothing can take that away. Nothing can take away the time that we spent together. And even though it's over, and I wouldn't go back, I'm happy for the time we had. And now it's time to move on. But it's hard in the moment when I'm not thinking logically like that. Haha.
Most Helpful Girl
I handle my breakups differently. I tend to question the whole situation like did that person ever care, I talk to myself to dissect the situation, I overthink and it'll happen often till I finally get over it. It depends on the bond that I had with that person because if we were close deeply then it'll hit me terribly. I tend to get over things once someone new comes along but the past hurt is still there. It's weird, but I don't feel down or anything I just feel if the person didn't care so much within the situation then I'll be the first to leave before they leave me. It's like: "I don't care." The only thing I regret is because he has my grad pictures in a mail I sent him and I still wonder what did he do with those.. probably burnt them.