Me, I had this woman I was going out on dates with for about 3-4 months prior. I told her to call me out on things I may be doing that come across as odd to her (as a man who has rarely dated at all and hadn't really been on multiple dates with 1). No abuse of any kind.
After a couple tragedies, says she wants to cool down... continued to be a bit of a flirt at the same time. Went out, and as I took her back to her vehicle before she went home, she started crying about one loss. I felt bad. She finally calmed down & I tried to kiss her, she leaned back & said "whoa." Went to her vehicle and drove off.
Later that night, I do apologize about it via text... and she says she doesn't think I should talk to her anymore. I think to myself because of the move... and I proceed to ask her if this is just her way of trying to quit, to which she replies "I'm considering it."
I question her what the real issue with me is, and she just wouldn't budge on it. She then says she is just scared... of me! I'm thinking to myself... scared? Why? I finally push her to admit what she means by being scared... and she says because of actions I do and how I look toward her, she thinks I'm going to do something bad to her, whether it be abuse, assault or worse.
Not only does she say that, but then proceeds to say she keeps getting this "vibe" about me that I'm actually going to do something bad. Yet at the same time, tells me if I need someone to talk to, I can talk to her... a girl WHO JUST SAID SHE IS AFRAID OF ME.