So I have just split up with my ex for the second time... He cheated on me first time round and when we got back with eachother he has ended up chatting up a woman I caught him out and he says where best being apart as he said he is not capable on being in a relationship. He says it's nothing that IV done wrong it's him with the issue he can't settle down and that I'm so sweet and caring and that I deserve better someone that will give me what he can't. He's 33 year old man and he's made these excuses first time round but when we got back together he said he realised how much he's missed me. We have never argued only bickered like you do in relationships but we got on so well like best friends. He has said he's going to miss me and he's really fond of me yet he's told me he loves me I met his family and friends we have been together for 8 months and I found out the reason is past relationships don't last is because he's cheated. Is this really a man with issues?