Most Helpful Guy
I have the same issue as your ex minus the cheating. I simply end the relationship. I feel every relationship is too much of a compromise and the fun of the chase and getting to know a new person is too much of an allure to ignore.
Eventually, I am hoping to find a woman who I feel offers me more in partnership than I would be able to get being single and playing the field. Sadly, I have yet to meet such a woman.
I would agree that he has issues. He has serious issues with honesty. I don't tolerate dishonesty well.
Most Helpful Girl
When a man really loves you, he won't cheat or play around with your feelings. Stop looking for excuses to hold on and move on ffs.