My boyfriend and I have been dating for 9 months now,he just started comparing me to his ex (in a bad way) he said that I should figure out what it is that I am doing wrong, because he won't tell me. I have never cheated on him and I am madly in love with him. I don't feel that it is fair that he is comparing me to his ex. how do I please him? I don't want to lose him help!