My ex and I broke up 8 months ago after a 5 month relationship (my first serious one).
He said he didn't want a committed relationship and he couldn't be the boyfriend I wanted him to be.
I was so upset afterward that when he asked if we could be friends, I essentially said no. On top of that, I deleted him from all of my social media because initially, I didn't want to know what he was up to.
I don't hate him and it wasn't a nasty break up or anything , but we literally never spoke to each other again. It sometimes feels like it never happened. I think of him from time to time though and can't help but wonder if he ever thinks of me.
Is this normal? Does this usually happen to people? How do you deal with it?
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yeah there is some ex gf's I've never heard from in years , I can recall one I worked with summers of 2008 and 2009 , we were pretty close and saw a lot of each other those 2 summers. but things got really weird near the end and I think she moved to the city for work.
I remember she got really upset at me after this party she had , I had broke things and came on to her ( we weren't in a formal relationship so had never slept together , but always obvious we had a thing for each other ) . and soon after the job ended for the year , we were both at a golf course and it closed for season. either way never seen or heard a thing from her since , always though it seemed odd she'd do that. it be so awkward if we ran into each other now , its been like 8 years with no contact , she could even be married by now. I do wonder what happened to her but don't really have deep feelings for her anymore0