I broke up with my boyfriend two weeks ago. I never saw him and he wasn't treating me right. It was hard because his mother was in control of his life and she would find ways to make him busy. It made us both mad. I thought it was the right thing to do. But now I feel like I lost a part of myself. I miss him so much. I'm still in love with him as I have been for these past 10 months. I talked to him earlier today because when we parted, we decided it was the wrong time but we should remain in each other lives as friends. After talking about us and what happened, he told me that even though we were in love, he was afraid of love because of how "new" it was to him. How can you be afraid of love when we've dated for so long?
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i totally understand where he is coming from.Love is a like a rose...the surface is sweet, but underneath it are thorns. I tell girls this and they look at me like I'm dumb, I tell em "if you ever wanna love someone, you have to prepare yourself for heartbreak" . you girls can take heartbreak (lord knows how) guys cant. that's why we are very very careful bout who we "love". but girls just jump into it even if its not real...i guess y'all got better faith than us. I'm not afraid of love, used to be...but I figured out a trick a while back...and that's what I've been using.
Go with the friend option for a while..for all you know, you guys may end up working your way into love together...not one person jumping in and hoping the other will too.0
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