Me and this guy, we aren't official we have more of a friends with benefits status and we both really like each other but we live a couple hours apart and its hard to see each other. I feel like we could both do better and find better people for us that are closer. There are times when I wish he could be here with me but I know its not possible. How do I tell him to move on? I mean its going to hurt both of us but dragging on the relationship-like-thing we have is hurting more.