Did it work and how long did it take for them to contact you after the initial break up?
Most Helpful Guy
I see all these posts about EXes... Why does my ex not like me? This and that about an ex... should we get back together...
An EX means.. in the past. In my life, after any break up, an EX is out of my mind. I move on almost immediately and never think of, try to contact, check up on, etc...
Breakups happen for a reason...
I'm not talking about someone who moved away... I'm talking about relationships that ended due to cheating, abuse, incompatibility and such...
Who CARES about an EX? Who cares about what an EX thinks of them?
Then "breaks"... what's that all about? all this is is an admission you can't commit in a relationship. Taking a vacation from a relationship isn't going to fly.
ALSO... getting back together after a breakup.. or chasing someone to get back together... sorry folks, the same issues are gonna be there.
This "closure" What's that about? No such thing... So what? It's over.. there is your closure.
Move on... where you found one guy/gal, there will always be more.1
Most Helpful Girl
When my ex and I broke up we didn't use the contact bullshit. It was just too hard for both of us to completely disappear. I did menage not to call him or text him for some things when I usually would, but then after awhile I would just go nuts and call him. Same for him. Those were just "hey how are you?" and "what's up" calls, nothing big tho. It's really, really, really hard to break the routine. I wasn't that strong so fuck it. Eventually we started talking less and less and now we haven't talked for a year. We slowly grew apart, we didn't force anything. But yes it helped that we didn't talk for this long. Now I don't care if we never talk again, but I also wouldn't mind catching up either. I'm kind of indifferent. I guess it depends on why you broke up and how long you were together. My ex and I broke up mutually because we couldn't close the distance (we were together for 5 years in a LDR).0