I was in a relationship with my ex for 3 years we both were not happy and finally we broke it off she still wanted to remain good friends but I thought it would be too difficult emotionally for both of us to meet. She was my best friend and I don't know how can I spend a day let alone 15 secs without being reminded of her. I feel like it's a curse coz deep down I still love her but I know that we can't be together.
Most Helpful Girl
How low are the chances for you to never get back together?
Because if she still loves you too, don't let it go and fight for your love.
However if there are 0 chances for it work, I think you should:
- Tell her you want to have some space for a couple of months (keep a distance , it will hurt at first, but you can't simply "stay friends" immediately after a break up).
- Delete her , or hide /mute her on social media so you don't constantly get reminded of her.
- Focus on one of your life goals. For example you can start a new hobby like working out, running, basket ball etc...
- Socialize with other women (not date) just socialize and try to see. other people.1
Most Helpful Guy
You need to give it time, it will be tough. But you need to avoid contact, if you want to fully forget about it. And you won't forget about her completely, there will always be this thing that will remind of you of her, but with time you won't care and will see it just a part of your life.2