three years a go i met a girl online and we used to talk a lot, we went for a relationship for one year then i broke up with her and it was my choice and still don't know why i made this stupid decision, she was the best girl i've ever met, however we remained friends but she said we can't be friends because she loves me so much, unfortunately i ignored her, after 8 mobths passed since we broke up she said she is giving up on me then left forever and I've totally lost contact with her, now its been 8months since i started regretting what i did and i can't even date another girl or do anything even studying because all I think about is her, i can't enjoy my life i tried to contact her but no chance because now i've no information about her only her name and the city she lives in, i am preparing to travel to that city next month but i am afraid i won't be able to find her because it seems pretty hard to find a person in that large city, knowing we won't talk again, this is the worst feeling ever, i never cried because of a girl but when i read her last messages to me and see her old pics tears come out automatically 😢 i can't move on and see my life without her so what do you think guys if i won't be able to talk to het again what should i do, i am really lost, my feelings for her won't fade and memories are killing me..
I can't forget her?
What Girls Said 1
this is waht happens when guys like you reject good girls ;) I'm not even sorry for you. But, if I were you, and if going to this city is the only way - go for it but know that 1. she might be already in a relationship 2. if she's not she could be over you anyway 3. if she's not then she could start to act like it's a payback time and try to make you into her slave in all ways girls make guys slaves: money, time, emotions etc. Are you into this :) Also, 8months is not that much ;) It's how long ago I broke up with a guy I loved a lot. I still miss him, but that was going nowhere, so... Always remember why you broke up or decided not to get involved into something in the first place. Sometimes it's not the person but our imaginations that we're missing ;)1
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