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Why did you have to call it "earn"😩. A huge part of the appeal for us guys is being wanted and it's hard to feel that way if she sees it as just something we need to earn / just a chore to reward us.Mabey phase it as wait till you trust him enough or something.It also seems quite frankly sexist to imply it's some prize for guys to earn.
@sedrftvgyhujik You still have to earn trust lol. Men need to realize that sex, whether you like t or not, is something that is to be earned.
Earning trust is very different.Earning sex suggests that as men where not desired.That your just doing it because they did things for you not because you enjoy it.
@sedrftvgyhujik That's a immature way to look at sex and I think that's how men try to guilt women into giving it up. See, here's the thing, my vagina is mine, not yours, and it's not something that should just be given away like a gift on Christmas. You have to work your good graces into my life and sex is one of those things. You have to give me a reason to give you that piece of me. Otherwise, keep moving.
I think there's some mixed communication.I said it shouldn't be like a gift and something to do because you want to. Not something seen as something for men to earn. No guy would ever make you earn his dick not every guy would want you to fuck you but they wouldn't say you have to earn it. A guy wouldn't fuck someone he didn't want to on the condition they earnt it.
Maybe for a guy your age.. but. that doesn't really apply to people around my age.
I'm okay with dying alone. In fact i prefer it.
@amoo126090 Lol it will apply if if they don't change their ways but that's on you guys if you continue to use girls for sex. Eventually some will tire of screwing girls and will want a real love relationship but it will be too late. (The guy that did this to me was 22. I'm older 26.)
Whenever I do it, both parties are "using" each other. It is a mutual thing. I say my intentions from the start. So just because I'm at a point in my life where I have to focus on myself and dont have time for a relationship will mean I'll die alone?
@amoo126090 That is good that you are honest with the girls from the start. I like that. Focus on getting your needs satisfied for however long you want. Just don't fall for one of those girls because since you say its nothing serious they will most likely leave. One day, if you don't change and want a relationship, you will end up alone. Just don't let it get to that point. I know some guys that just want a lot of sex from different girls and want to do that for the rest of their lives. Those guys will die alone.
Oh I see what you're saying. I hear and completely agree with you completely.
didn't mean to put completely twice
@amoo126090 Haha good you got my point. Some guys are destined to be players. Those are sad guys. Everyones fear is to die alone and not have love. You are still young so you're not ready to be in a relationship.
@SwolDishWasher Me too! I don't trust anyone. I think romance/love is dead. I will be happier because there is no drama from guys, no lies and can live a simpler life.
What if i want to die alone?
@SwolDishWasher If thats what you want good for you knowing what you want. I want the same thing.
Yeah. Dieing alone is GOAT
For men their value doesn't decrease much when they age. The amount of girls that marry guys 10 or 15 years older... for women if they do sleep around and they start reaching past 30/35 that's when it can become very hard for them to find good partners. When they hit 40's they are practically bottom of the pile.
@TheUsername27 I guess but nowadays people can find a partner or partners at any age. A lot of people's end goals now is to not marry but just sleep around or find one person to be in a long relationship.
And with website full of women, I find it hard to believe that not a single like smh
Why not stick around for round 3? If a cow gives out free milk, then their isn't much of a need to go back to the grocery store. Just my opinion.
@red324 yeah but that cow can get old and the taste stale.
@Darknut123 not after only two rounds. Lol
What do you mean for free?
We also enjoy sex and its not possible without the d so... men should stop acting like they are the gold mine.
But they ARE the gold mine. They are the prize. A good man is hard to find. Choose wisely, treat kindly. :)As far as free - girls are the keepers of sex. Guys are the keepers of commitment. Don't give your part away without getting some of theirs.
Haha you are hilarious
Ha ha. You'll see. :)
Thanks for your opinion 😊
And next time try not to be bitter 😊😉
What exactly is bitter? Another juvenile shaming tactic? [shrug]You don't have any facts or basis so the comments are 'bitter'? Sure. :)
Are you 59?
Are you clueless?
Lady he gave some good advice and you're calling him bitter? Hah you'll go far...
&Baileys... you don't get it. Do you?
Keep up... and for your information, they also started at the coffee shop and the pizza inn
You lost me sorry. Are you saying your relationships started off that way?
She said yes.
@BaileyisDarcy So I need to go out and flirt with girls in a sexual way in an attempt to get them into bed in hopes it will then turn into a relationship? Versus just going about it in a more genuine way, where I show interest in the girl and her life. etc? I'm not really one to sleep with a girl I don't even know.
Nobody said that.And i have no idea honestly. I dont know how to flirt and I've never tried to pick anyone up.