Most Helpful Girls

  • **Everyone** here is SO TOTALLY MISSING THE MOST IMPORTANT THING.

    Which is...

    ... For SOME reason, the sex just wasn't **good enough** for him.

    I mean, boys are not ridiculously stupidly inevitably self-defeating. They direct a LOT of their effort, energy, and lives in general into attracting women and getting laid.
    SOOOOO
    ... If a boy's found a woman with whom the sex is FUCKING AMAZING? Rapturous, breathless, multiorgasmic, what's-my-name-again-oh-fuck-it-who-even-cares-anymore, the kind of thing that'll **immediately** monopolize his entire mind whenever he closes his eyes for the rest of his damn LIFE, even 25 years later when he's with his more "stable" but less exciting wife, kind of amazing?
    ahah DO YOU THINK HE'S GNA WALK AWAY FROM THAT?

    Fuck no he won't.

    I mean ok, sure, for most boys there are other, compensatory variables that can make up for... somewhat less exciting sex. That whole "oh but she's wife material" bit.
    And if the boy just ghosts, then, that probably means he didn't think you had *those*, either.

    Buttttt yeah.
    ··•• IF YOU FUCK A BOY AND HE DOESN'T COME BACK... THE SEX WASN'T THAT GOOD FOR HIM. ••··

    That's not a fun truth. But that doesn't make it any less of a truth.

    __

    WHY wasn't it that good?

    Sometimes, the reasons actually make logical sense.
    • Do you just... kinda lie there?
    • Are you afraid to GET INTO IT, because you think you'll "seem too slutty"? (Smh)
    • Do you... basically just not pay attention to what the boy specifically likes?
    • Do you... basically not SEDUCE the boy?
    Because yeah... Yeah. Boring sex is BAD, boys and girls.

    Other times, the reasons DON'T make sense -- or they're just beyond yr control.
    Maybe when you're about to climax, yr breath jumps in **exactly** the same way as that crazy psycho bitch who set his car on fire back in the day and omgggg he just rlly rlly has to get the fuck out of there NOWWWW.
    Or maybe you *smell* somewhat like another woman With Whom Things Did Not End Well.
    Or... or or or.

    Sometimes he just ain't picking up what you're putting down, and that's all there is. Not sexually compatible.

    But... yeah.

    Oh gurl. Guurrrrrrlllllll. If it's GOOD for the boy... he'll come back. Oh yeah he will. Oh FUCK yeah he will.
    He'll KEEP coming back -- even long after it's clear that he shouldn't.

    #mmhmm

  • Because now they got what they wanted and don't need to make any more effort. They are not excited as much anymore because the catch was easy and it's a turn off.

    You always gotta make yourself look like a prize, don't give it up too quick.

    They run away because sex was all they wanted and now their mission is completed. Now they are out doing the exact same thing to the next girl. More girls they do, bigger legends they are when they brag out to their friends. It boosts their ego.

    Conclusion:
    Make a guy wait, that way you'll know whether he's serious about you or just here to hit it and quit it.

    Ps: there also might be a little chance that they started catching feelings so they pulled away but this one is like less likely to happen.

  • I've found the only time I've been ghosted after having sex with a guy is when I've shown any sort of interest in him. I kept a friends with benefits relationship that I had strictly just that, and he was so confused as to why I was so "cold" to him and why I didn't want to hang out all the time. Just let him come to you. I think that guy would've been interested in dating me had I expressed mutual interest.

  • Because the guy thinks that hey if she sleeps with me than she will sleep with another. They have the intentions if you sleep with them than you would sleep with any guy you get into relationships with. They have that mindset because they are guilty of it.

Most Helpful Guys

  • It pretty much just comes down to one thing in almost all circumstances. They aren't attracted to you enough to date you. I say attraction in regards to the whole package. You might of been hot enough to fuck for one night but that's it.

    Getting a lot of sex as an average girl isn't that hard to do at all. An average guy is not going to be able to get nearly as much sex. For a guy to get casual sex he has to be above average in some way, shape, or form.

    I just talked about this on my last opinion but I can't stand it when these girls who are average as a whole package at best try to act like they are of such high value because they can fuck all of these dudes and have a bunch of nerds creeping on them. All of those guys are only trying to get at them for one reason. Your value is only your pussy.

    If you're looking for a relationship through trial and error a multitude of times and find guys only wanting you for sex.. new flash. You're not as great as you think and no guys aren't 'intimidated' by you lmao.

  • Funny... MGTOW dudes say women do this the most.

    in my opinion, it's because I want nothing else to do with it. I got what I wanted, the sex, and the question to go for a round 2 is simply not worth the effort... not with this chick... not for me.

    If being ghosted is a common issue for you (male or female), I would start pointing out either A) something you're doing, or B) where you're picking up these sexual partners, i. e. clubs, swinger clubs, or school.

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  • Because he just wanted to satisfy his needs. Got what he wanted and now on the hunt for the next prey. But are these people really happy? I think they will end up dying alone.

    • Maybe for a guy your age.. but. that doesn't really apply to people around my age.

    • I'm okay with dying alone. In fact i prefer it.

    • @amoo126090 Lol it will apply if if they don't change their ways but that's on you guys if you continue to use girls for sex. Eventually some will tire of screwing girls and will want a real love relationship but it will be too late. (The guy that did this to me was 22. I'm older 26.)

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  • It's never good to generalize, both sexes do this just as often 😊 for the most part psychologically the person leaves because they feel no attachment or care at all beyond sexual pleasure.

  • Because they got exactly what they came for, why stick around?

    • Why not stick around for round 3? If a cow gives out free milk, then their isn't much of a need to go back to the grocery store. Just my opinion.

    • @red324 yeah but that cow can get old and the taste stale.

    • @BaileyisDarcy lol

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  • Because they were only looking for a hookup, usually. Which is fine, but the problem is they need to be honest about what they want. Casual sex is acceptable these days, no need to pretend.

  • people ghost on people when they dont care. sex has nothing to do with it.

  • for the same reason girls ghost guys

  • If the sex is good and you have a great personality, they will stay. Might not fall for you but still bone you for a year. This happened to me..

  • look up anna akana should I stop fucking on the first date on youtube but I think it may be due to the fact that you two didn't have a real deep connection in the first place.

  • Not saying this includes you because I do not know you but: Girls/women who use just sex to get men can't complain if he leaves for another because sex is everywhere. It's like a woman in the middle of the ocean trying to use water to keep a guy's attention. And you leave no time to even find a guy who values more than sex if you spend all your time with random dudes who only talk about your T&A.

  • I would assume either they found someone better or they got what they came for and want a new conquest.

  • Because they're sleazeballs who were only after one thing and that girl who gave it up was completely stupid for doing it. That's why you make men wait and earn sex instead of giving it away like candy on Halloween.

    • Why did you have to call it "earn"😩. A huge part of the appeal for us guys is being wanted and it's hard to feel that way if she sees it as just something we need to earn / just a chore to reward us. Mabey phase it as wait till you trust him enough or something. It also seems quite frankly sexist to imply it's some prize for guys to earn.

    • @sedrftvgyhujik You still have to earn trust lol. Men need to realize that sex, whether you like t or not, is something that is to be earned.

    • Earning trust is very different. Earning sex suggests that as men where not desired. That your just doing it because they did things for you not because you enjoy it.

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  • They've moved on to their next conquest.

  • 1. Sex was all he wanted from you, and he got that.
    2. You're bad in bed.
    All you can do is move on and try to make a better judgement call next time.

  • it means they never really liked the girl just used her for sex.

  • Because they were looking for sex, so y'all had the sex and now he has moved on. Honestly girly, don't take it personally. He probably did like you, but he is in his bachelor phase right now. Sadly most of the time they never leave it.

  • Because why not?
    If a woman let's a man use her she shouldn't be surprised that he won't text her. It's not rocket science.

    He got what he wanted.

  • he found fresher meat... guys can get used to a girl fast so they do one night stands (in your case two) and they go on to the next girl to keep up variety, thats why you can't be shocked when you put out early. horndogs will move on fast if you dont put out early so you can get a good guy by simply not offering it too soon.

  • Apparently, they got what they wanted and now want it from someone else.

  • it isn't about guys , there are ladies who does it too. and as far as I can say i won't ghost anyone as long as i have respect for her , when she loose my respect I won't talk to her... ever..., but others do it cause they where into it for sex , and she got boring so he /she left the other...😒

  • Cause we fuckboys

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