i know this is stupid. like i do love him in some weird way, i like talking to him, and I'm kind of used to it all now, and I'm terrified of it ending. but at the same time long distance just doesn't work for me, if we aren't going ti be together, how does the relationship move forward? I've never broken up with someone, and i dont want to hurt him... how do i end things? any ideas on how to make him break up with me? that would be nice. honestly it isn't him, it's me.
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Girl I just went through the same thing it was very , very difficult.. except I just had trust issues long distance isn't my thing unless we are seeing each other constantly. He was always busy so I wanted to just end things before it got any deeper.. but at the same time my heart was split in half because I really do love him & care it was just wrong timing.. but all I did was stay distant , I was completely ignoring but I made conversation less.. & then sometimes I wouldn't respond & eventually he caught on & he didn't want to end it but I explained to him maybe we'll end up back together and it'll work , but now it's best to be separated.. of course it isn't easy , but I wasn't harsh about it and done it the nicest way.. but good luck , hope I helped !!:)1