My boyfriend broke up with me a month ago, after 2+ years of being together. We had a very special relationship and he was the person I trusted the most on this world. Things got a bit messed towards the ending and he ended up saying the passion faded. He asked me to stay friends with him and I said yes because I thought that could be the way to get him back. Right now, i'm not so sure. He texts me every single day and we talk, but I feel awkward because I want him back and I don't know what to do. I was thinking about stop talking for a few days, because that would possibly give him space to miss me and it would give me space to process things a bit. i don't exactly understand why he continues to start conversations with me everyday but he goes hot and cold, depending on the times. He says he is fine though (I do too, despite the fact that i'm not). Will no contact help or backfire? What if he forgets about me and moves on for good?
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Girl, I have the same situation. Dated a guy for 5 months. All of a sudden he doesn't see a future with me or has time for me. He knows I still love him and of course he asked to be friends. I remember saying yes but knowing he's talking to girls knowing damn well how I feel is not fair for me. So one day I told him to fuck off and not to text me anymore. Guess what? I didn't contact him for 5 days until he sent me a text. Show him you're strong and don't need him (although deep down we both know we still want them)
I mean, I didn't contact him and he ended up texting me, which indicates he was thinking about me.2THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE