My boyfriend broke up with me for being concerned about his wellbeing. (I didn't hear from him throughout the entire day, so I texted & called him because I was worried).
He disrespected me for trying to figure out why he was breaking up with me & why he wouldn't talk to me stating "I am clingy, I shouldn't have kept texting him (I only texted him 3x times) & to leave him the f alone".
I am left hurt & confused because I just found out he is currently with somebody else. In the past he has cheated & verbally/mentally abused me, but this time it is taking me longer to get over him and I am in tears.
I asked him over and over why does he continue to hurt me and he leaves then returns weeks later. I am trying to understand him but I don't get why would a person that claims that they love constantly betray you.
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At this stage the problem is you.
He's proven time and time again he's unreliable, unkind and doesn't treat you well. You choosing to go back, question his behaviour and ask why he doesn't care about you is allowing him to keep doing it.
You set the standard for how others treat you, if someone treats you like crap and you choose to keep trying to make it work and understand why they do it then that is your choice.
The better option is to not care why an asshole behaves like an asshole, and find someone who will be a better boyfriend2
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