How do I get over my ex boyfriend? He is a total jerk to me and wants nothing to do with me. Then he gets drunk and drunk dials and says he needs me and it's so hard. I have a new man who is wonderful. I want this fresh start and have to put the past behind me. What are some good strategies? We have a kid together so I can go no contact completely from my ex. I deserve happiness with my new man. I don't want to mess it up.