I dated this girl, love of my life. we were together for a long time but we were young. I let stupid things get in the way. I broke up with her, and immediately did everything I could to get her back. I had carved our names into a tree, and I drove to that tree ( 4 hours both ways) cut it out brought it to her and a number of other things, flowers, I bought tickets to Nashville (she always wanted to go their). it's now two years down the road we have had limited contact in the meantime but I still think about her every single day. I still love her. her biggest issue with me was how much I lied (which I did at the start but I stopped but because she didn't have trust she always thought I was lying.) I know she's seeing some other dude. I think she's happy with him. so my question is three parts, 1. how do I get her back if it's possible 2. how would i gain her trust back and 3. would it be selfish of me to try.