My girlfriend cheated on me and lied to me for 5 years about it. What should I do? (Page 2)
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Tit for tat is a dangerous game, where will it stop. I think you sleeping with her "friend" won't help anything just make it worse. You just need to decide whether you can really trust her again AND whether you and she can trust these friends of hers.
Over 4 years ago?
Think about the statute of limitations and prescription in Penal Law: link
Prescription is only non existent for crimes against Humanity, usually when judged by international courts)
Committing the same 'crime' doesn't help anything.
I did put myself over it and pardoned that girl. (I did more than pardon her , but that's not the subject here)
noooooooo! I understand that you are angry and you totally have that right. She was so wrong for doing that but walk out of the relaionship with her looking like the ass and not you too being even. And I agree with lilxmamaxbad. O is a horrible person for coming on to you but you will be no better ifyou sleep with her.
Just leave her on the street like the rest of your trash and never look back. Revenge, jealousy, spite, and all of those sorts of things are only going to make you look stupid and petty (and rightfully so).
O is a horrible friend and if I was a guy I wouldn want to f*** a girl whod do that to their so called best friend shows you what kind of character she has
No payback as that won't help, what was her excuse? If not good enough I would for sure leave her no matter how much you love her, you deserve better. She should have told you to begin with, then explain why. We are human and we all do mistakes but come on what did she expect! Hope it helps
Sleeping with O will only mean you lowered yourself to your girlfriends ways.Revenge only makes you look as bad as the person you're seeking revenge against:)))
Two rights make a wrong! You have to question her "friends" motive for revealing her friends secret after all this time. You are not at fault for her cheating, but the answer isn't in her "friend"! The best revenge you can get. if that's what you're into at this point"...is to get on with YOUR life. Leave her friend in the shadows where she belongs! Because if she would betray her "friend" she would betray you in any imaginable way.
Two rights make a wrong? I'm not trying to be mean. I just want to know if that's what you meant to write.
"An eye for an eye only ends up making the whole world blind" -Gandhi
revenge only adds more. forgiveness washes it away.
Dude I soo I agree I wish everyone were like this
Breakup damn.. if she broke your heart just leave her. That is enough revenge. No need to be petty and cheat because it makes you as the same type of low life.
Personally if it were me I’d have dumped her and had nothing to do with anyone in that group except for MAYBE Z. She was the only one willing to admit wrong doing in covering things up. Otherwise you likely would have never known. The other two should be kicked to the curb. Get out while you can brother.
You need to forgive her and get over it so you can move on with the relationship or get out of the relationship if she is not trustworthy. Sleeping with someone else will not make you or her feel better. The cycle of cheating will never end. Sorry there is no gray in this problem its black or white. You are either 100% in the relationship or 100% out.
2 wrongs really don't make a right, don't lower your morals to hers. what goes around comes around in the end. leave her tho if you can't forgive her, or you will end up bitter x
what should you do? ditch that bitch. cheating isn't good revenge, don't even think about it...makes you look probably worse lmao...pretty easy question to answer
if he still z v other man...dump her man...she won't change...but if that is history and she didn't do it again..then forgive her if you wan...
No ...don't sleep with her. Or have any contact with
The best thing you can do right know is to forget about them ...especially your girlfriend :)
if you belive in karma then what is the difference between your girlfriend and you! their won't be in any differince
Leave. It's simple. She lied for 5 months about it. Trust me she'll do it again. Those types are hearless. Definately move on.
Yes definitely cheat on her and let her catch you in the act. After all its only fair. And remember there are many fish in the sea.
THINK ABOUT THE CONSEQUENCES.. DONT DO IT ESPECIALLY IF EVERYTHIN IS FINE WIT UR GF
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Any1 else's heart skip a beat when you saw the brown haired girl