anyway does the no contact rule apply in this situation if he's depressed? Do you think he will contact me? Should I contact him after a couple of weeks just to see if he's okay in terms of his depression to show I do still care? Or should I just not contact him at all like any other break up? Thoughts please x
Most Helpful Guy
Don't apply no contact, even if you want him back, it can make him feel even worse. Just text him from time to time to see how is he doing, if he needs something, etc,... Be kind and respect him if he tells you that he wants to be alone. In the end he can be like "Oh, she was there all the time for me, blah blah blah." Just don't force him to talking with you if he's not feeling like it. Hope he gets better and it will work out in between you again.1
Most Helpful Girl
if he's depressed, he most likely will feel alone, worthless, unwanted, etc.
you should definitely contact him to see if he's okay, if he asks for more time, give him a few days and see how he is again.
after it's all said and done, you'd feel so awful if you didn't contact him whilst he felt like this.1