I spent 3 years with a women looked after her took her all over the world and paid lived with her for 2 years waited while she was at sea working for 6 months then she cheated on me at sea i forgave her, then she dumps me for calling her a slag... my reaction to holding it all in for 6 months I've been blocked on i message for asking to reconcile and i only get e mail contcat now if she even replys? what am i doing wrong I've pleaded and begged for 3 months and then stopped doing that but its like i was never even alive, she wears my promise ring which she let me put on her finger while she was cheating i wasn't aware until she told me some 5 months later about the cheating... am i a fool? why do i feel like the bad person every day i wake up for a women that vcheated on me then left me high and dry after all her promises and telling me she loved me? have i missed something?
no matter what i say and do there's no reaction to anything at all? I wouldn't mind she's never said she doesn't want to be with me and she came back after the fall out but then took off again 10 days later I'm lost, so this is how a converstaion usallly is any advice
ME) Just seeing your alright, don't hear anything from you at all... I'm just off out to look at vans.. hope your ok anyway.
HER) I'm just sat in the Citroen garage having my car serviced. Hoping I can come home again later. Enjoy van shopping
ME) Very good
ME) if you come home... come see me or can I come see you... please? What you say? .
ME) Love you ya know always will... let me know if we can meet up... I'll even come there if you want me to xx really miss ya ya know... do you miss me? You should text me this e mail stuff is mental.
ME) Hope you got your car sorted, I'd really love to see you this weekend if you have time, unless next week is the week your off college if that's better for you I mean I'm not saying you want to but if you do it would be nice... just saying
ME) Did you make it home ok..
SO ITS BECOMING ANNOYING NOW MORE THEN LOVING?
What Girls Said 3
Ok where do I even start? She has emotionally finished with you I don't know if she ever did actually love or you were a easy opportunity you did say you looked after her I gathered that means financial? you were there for her when she needed you! But maybe the six months at sea gave her time to reflect on her life you calling her a slag wasn't the reason she dumped you! she already decided that! just needed a excuse to end it I'm sorry if this seems harsh but you seem like a nice guy you have to question why you would want to be with someone who would treat you like that! No woman wants a desperate man and you sound desperate my advice is cut her off completely I know it's hard but in my experience they always come back cos they wonder why all of a sudden you have stopped contacting them. Move on and give someone who deserves your attention. Good luck x0
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Time to let her go and forget about her. She clearly doesn't care. Open up a new chapter and move on. You should only love someone who deserves the love. One for advice, once a cheater.. always a cheater. Even if you guys are back together, you will never be able to trust her the same way and that will make your relationship toxic. Also, you should never beg! Your so should never make u beg! You should never feel guilt. Trust me you didn't go wrong in this relationship. She did and its her loss. Trust me because i have been in this situation. The man who loved me for 8 years, i cheated on. He forgave and did all he could to make things work.. but i was stupid enough not to appreciate him. Now that he is gone from my life.. I regret every moment of my existence and trust me im glad he is gone. Now at least i know that if he moves on, he will find someone better than me, who will love him genuinely.
Anyways good luck and try to think about yourself first and assess the situation0
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