He told me a week ago that he truly loved me, that he wanted to see me in his life in 5 years, and he bought me a bracelet for my birthday and wanted to be very special. I mean I thought we were good... didn't think he would do this at all! I love him so much and I know time will heal... but we are still friends. He still talks to me, but he's more enthusiastic when we talk now.. and sometimes his answers are shorter. Its giving me confused signals. I don't believe now that he had unconditional love for me... just love cause he gave up so quickly! Said he didn't love me anymore... but he paused for a while when he said that. Because we might have rushed things, do you think just by being friends he could come back? Or do you think it really is a weight issue?
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I wish I could reach through this monitor and give your head a shake. None of this is your fault, least of all your weight.
All of this is on HIM. You have been his longest relationship at 4 months? That is a huge red flag that this guy is not looking for a commitment and has absolutely no idea what he wants right now.
The result is you're allowing him to jerk you around and come and go as he pleases.
Will he come back? Yeah, I guarantee he will come back. I also guarantee he will leave again too and you'll be even more hurt than now.
My advice to you is focus your attention on a different guy.3THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE