Most Helpful Girl
My last break up was with a very cute and smexy Norwegian guy from an LDR. I don't want to do LDR's anymore until I move out of my parents house because since that, I have learned it's better to get into something that you don't have to be paranoid about.
But he was wonderful and so brave and strong, yet so sensitive and oh-so submissive. That was what attracted him to me in the firsts place was his enticing bratty-ness yet submissiveness. We barely got a month into the relationship, but he was really awesome I could tell in just that's short time.
We had to break up because my parents found out when they demanded to see my stuff and they banned me from using my device for a while. I have it back now which is what I'm writing on, but it was pretty crazy. Then he dared to tell my mom through text that she should allow me to have friends and talk to people and my mom flipped. But that is something I don't feel like discussing.
How did I move on? Well, there wasn't much to move on about. I could tell he was really awesome and I liked him, but I still have never truly stopped loving my first love so I had no problem moving on.
But to fill the emptiness and sadness of losing someone to call my own for a bit, I listened to music and remember the good times and watched movies and went for lots of walks. I also had no iPod so I couldn't do anything online. It was quite the detox in a way. Just a relaxing time to chill and not deal with electronics really.
I took that time to get a hobby and go outside more. Which I then realized I don't like going outside as much as I used to when I was a kid. Too much blood sucking bugs for my taste.
What ultimately helped me fill that void? Think about what I have done. Fully embrace it and think about everything. From my first love to him. And all the other LDRs. I still remember his name and his birthday (the month, anyways). I also took into account that we were never meant to be, even though he said things like "I love you" and "you're the best 🦁❤️". It also helped to know that he would easily get ove rme because he may have said he loved me, but he didn't truly and he would be able to experience true love one day with someone else more capable of loving him.
Most Helpful Guy
Never been in a relationship but I've been fucked over majorly by two women who used me on the rebound. To me that eventually felt like a break up, only in the sense that they were manipulative and when they seemed into me, it was intense.
Anyways I'm still not slightly over the last girl who rebounded me but generally friends and family, as well as music, weed, and drinking.