- Tell her
- Keep it to yourself
What should I do?
What Girls Said 1
tell her when you are ready. it does that have to be immediately, but if you are serious about her, let her in to your world1
What Guys Said 1
How long have you been with her?
This is the kind of stuff that is important to talk about. If this is a serious girlfriend who you love and trust, why would you hide it?
You don't have to go into details if you're uncomfortable with that, you could just tell her that your parents aren't getting along well and it's really bothering you. Otherwise she'll do exactly what you said, she'll start to wonder why you're acting different and either think that you're up to no good, or wonder if she's somehow not making you happy. It will ultimately cause tension in the relationship and who knows where that could lead. On the other hand, if you tell her that there's stuff going on at home that has you upset, she'll be more able to understand if you're acting differently.
You might even find it therapeutic to talk with her about what's going on and how it's making you feel, it's good to get this kind of stuff off your chest when you have someone trustworthy who cares for you and is willing to listen.2
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