It's been 6 weeks. And I still think about him. Less, but still almost all the time. And it makes me sad because I miss him, and I still love him.
I go out. I keep busy. I work, have friends. I date. I've gone on many, many dates since we broke up. I have a rich, fun social life.
It just feels like nobody compares to him :( how do I make this feeling go away.. because it is killing me :(?
Most Helpful Guy
I see all these posts about EXes... Why does my ex not like me? This and that about an ex... should we get back together...
An EX means.. in the past. In my life, after any break up, an EX is out of my mind. I move on almost immediately and never think of, try to contact, check up on, etc.
Breakups happen for a reason...
I'm not talking about someone who moved away... I'm talking about relationships that ended due to cheating, abuse, incompatibility and such. an incompatible person will still be incompatible. An abuser only gets worse. Promises "to change" are always lies.
Who CARES about an EX? Who cares about what an EX thinks of them? I see people who whine about an ex spreading rumors or posting negative things on social media. Who cares? Their opinion should not matter at all. They are an EX... the past. No longer involved with you.
Then "breaks"... what's that all about? all this is is an admission you can't commit in a relationship. Taking a vacation from a relationship isn't going to fly.
ALSO... getting back together after a breakup.. or chasing someone to get back together... sorry folks, the same issues are gonna be there.
"But I still love hm/her" So? That doesn't mean THEY love you back. There was a reason the relationship ended.
This "closure" What's that about? No such thing... So what? It's over.. there is your closure.
Move on... where you found one guy/gal, there will always be more. Everyone goes through MANY breakups in their lives. This EX is just on in a long line of future exes. That is life.
Be well and be realistic.0
Most Helpful Girl
It's still a Fresh Break Up, Here, dear, but no Fear... As time goes by and even though no you may Cry, the War Wounds will Heal a little Easier as Each day that passes.
I was Once in your own shoes with My First Love. No matter who I had Dated and Mated, no one, hun, Could ever Compare to my Dan the Man.
However, when we Both Became 21, 7 Years later, we happened by Fate, to just go on a Date, and this is When, my Friend, I found my Final Closure. I didn't Feel for Him anymore, I had changed and so had Both of Our Lives that we both were Leading.
Good Luck. xx0