This is long please help? Abusive boyfriend or another boy that doesn't really care?
What Guys Said 1
It is a very difficult situation you find yourself in, and I'm afraid there are no easy answers. Abusive relationships rarely work out well, and more often lead to disaster. In all honesty, I would suggest you distance yourself from him, but I know that sounds uncaring. The trouble is, a person who has no respect for himself cannot properly respect others, and if he already uses violence or abusive language with you, it will only get worse, unless he seeks a lot more proffesional help. It is not a relationship he needs. Based on this your other matter is something only you can decide. But whatever your choice, you should not feel guilty. You are not the one who is truly able to help him. Be careful though not to get yourself in a dangerous position with him. Remember, there are plenty of decent people in the world who will listen to you, and help if they can. Good luck.
What Girls Said 1
Just leave. He seems very narcissistic. 9/10 times a man threatens to kill themselves if you leave is bullshit. They just want you to feel guilty. Say "Adios loser."
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