My boyfriend's friend is getting married this sat. I know about it from other people telling me and there is going to be huge bash after. My boyfriend doesn't invite to any of his friends gatherings. He usually just goes himself or not at all. I invite him to any of mine but he refuses to go. Once we went to the bar together and there were sum of his friends there and we hung out. We have been together for a year and a half and I am started to feel like I am not important enough to him. Like he is ashamed to take me gatherings, I don't know. and also he doesn't take me to his family gatherings as well. My family isn't here but his family is. Do you think I should break up with him? Perhaps all this time I was kidding myself that he loves me
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He definitely is not legitimizing your relationship. He really does not sound like he sees himself in a relationship. I would be very saddened to find out a boyfriend of mine did not invite me to any of his friends gathering, particularly a wedding, and that he would not go to any of my friends gatherings either. Add in that he isn't taking you to any family events and that is pretty much awful.
I would have a talk with him and let him know how you feel. I would be prepared for him to tell you what you are feeling isn't valid or to show you why he does not want to change. But, if you are lucky, he will simply accept your feelings and make a change. If he doesn't, I would end it with him. It would be a double whammy that he is not including you in his life and also not interested in your feelings.
One classic line a guy like this will give is telling you that it isn't that important and he doesn't understand why you are making a big thing out of it. In that case, I put it right back on them to say if it is no big deal then why won't you just make the change? Good luck.0