He was the first guy I had genuine feelings for and he managed to hurt them in a split second. The worst part is that I can't blame him for anything, he was and still is so nice and perfect in every way for me. He just didn't feel me anymore. It's been 2 months and we still talk, but just as friends. It's killing me. What do you think I should do to just move on from this?
Most Helpful Guy
I'm sorry to hear you went through this experience. I understand that it's not easy, but it does get better. I think the best thing to do right now is to give yourself some space from him. Spend more time with friends and family, pick up a new hobby, or trying out something new. I say this because, to me, being with an ex after a break just reminds me of them and what we used to have. That makes it harder for me to move on, so I think spending some time apart would be good for you. I'm not saying you should stop being friends with him, just take some time for yourself to get collected and eventually move on. I do hope this helps and I wish you all the best.0
Most Helpful Girl
I was in a similar situation and what helped me was to have a honest talk with him about my feelings and we stopped seeing and talking w/ each other for a while until I felt better. If you're still friend he probably cares for you that way, so he'll understand the situation and give you the space you need. It's necessary (imo) to stop everything with him at least for a while in order for you to heal. In my case, after that hiatus in our friendship, I talked to him again and it was actually way better and our friendship got stronger and I got over it completely. Hope things work out for you, I know the pain you're going through must feel unbearable and like you're hopeless but always expressing your feelings helps a lot.0